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Succinct and affecting, Tomorrow Will Be Different recounts activist Sarah McBride s experience of coming out as a trans woman The memoir is roughly divided into three parts McBride s transition process as a college student, her role in advancing groundbreaking trans legislation in Delaware, and her romance and marriage to her first love, who tragically died of cancer in 2014 Unlike some readers who found the second part to be a slog, I thought the memoir was consistently compelling McBride writes simple, clear prose that seems designed to be accessible to anyone, and her observations about LGBT politics are insightful and intersectional, if not especially groundbreaking McBride has a bright future in politics, and her life story is well worth checking out.
[[ Book ]] ⇶ Tomorrow Will Be Different ↰ A timely and captivating memoir about gender identity set against the backdrop of the transgender equality movement, by a leading activist and the National Press Secretary for the Human Rights Campaign, the nation s largest LGBTQ civil rights organization Sarah McBride is on a mission to fight for transgender rights around the world But before she was a prominent activist, and before she became the first transgender person to speak at the Democratic National Convention in 2016, she was a teenager struggling with her identity With emotional depth and unparalleled honesty, Sarah shares her personal struggle with gender identity, coming out to her supportive but distraught parents, and finding her way as a woman She inspires readers with her barrier breaking political journey that took her, in just four years, from a frightened, closeted college student to one of the nation s most prominent transgender activists walking the halls of the White House, passing laws, and addressing the country in the midst of a heated presidential election She also details the heartbreaking romance with her first love and future husband Andy, a trans man and activist, who passed away from cancer in 2014 just days after they were married Sarah s story of identity, love, and tragic loss serves as a powerful entry point for readers who want to gain a deeper understanding of gender identity and what it means to be openly transgender From issues like bathroom access to healthcare, identification and schools, Sarah weaves the important political milestones, cultural and political debates, and historical context into a personal journey that will open hearts and change minds Tomorrow Will Be Different highlights Sarah s work as an activist and the key issues at the forefront of the fight for trans equality, providing a call to arms and empowering look at the road ahead The fight for equality and freedom has only just begun We must never be a country that says there s only one way to love, only one way to look, and only one way to live Sarah McBride My one wish right now is that Sarah McBride stays healthy, both physically and mentally, so she can one day become the president of the United States This is a wish packed with hope I want to live in the US that can have a woman president, a transgender president, and a young president Hey, even a progressive president right now seems like a stretch Anyway, I also selfishly want Sarah to be happy, because that means that we as a society will benefit from her light, so strong and brave I am in absolute awe of the power that this sweet young woman exudes, and the calm, measured way in which she approaches things Wise, self aware, loving, incredibly smart and so resilient a natural born leader, a beacon for change I am queer person who mostly presents as a woman, originally from Russia, now trying to stay in the US I came here because Russia is terrible for queer people but that was during Obama Now, that Trump is in power, being queer, an immigrant, or a woman presenting person is still better than doing the same in Russia, but not by far And it s easy to lose hope But knowing that there are people like Sarah in this world, or her beloved Andy, or all the other folk who are pushing for dignity and equality for everyone on the LGBTQ spectrum, makes me hopeful I know that this is a country where I can and will belong.As I read the book, sometimes sobbing, sometimes smiling warmly, sometimes a little lost in the bureacracy of legislative processes, one thing remained unchanged I wanted to hug Sarah I am often cautious about people in politics, and know too well the challenges of activism that sometimes strip a person of humanity in unexpected places But Sarah gives the air of wholeness She is still an idealistic doe eyed kid who wants to be president and makes a DNC diorama, but also an incredibly smart adult who understands how things in politics work And I think that this balance of the two is exactly what makes her such a promising figure I really hope that life works out in a way where Sarah s political career progresses further, and that one day I might who knows vote or just campaign for her. I m twenty four, transgender, and a widowthat s a lot for someone in this society to handle Sarah McBrideIn Tomorrow Will Be Different, Sarah McBride shares her personal story as inspiration and to put a face on what it is to be transgender.Imagine being unable to go into a public restroom in North Carolina without breaking the law Imagine being unable to change your sex on your state ID, or being unable to keep a job or find housing Imagine being vilified, ostracized, beaten up, an object of fear.Nearly fifty years ago my husband s father s best friend disowned his son when he became a woman Over the years I heard snippets of the story, how as a child their son loved to play dolls and dress up with his older sisters, how blame was assigned for causing their son s problem , the resulting divorce and alienation.In the 1990s my husband was approached by a teen from his church, an unhappy and angry child Some thought she was presenting butch because she was not conventionally pretty, assuming she was a pretend lesbian My husband affirmed her, but the support she needed from the community was not there She changed her name and moved away Today I know he was transgender, and I see on his Facebook page a happy, confident, burly guy with a successful career and a sparkle in his eye I am so happy for him.I wanted to read Tomorrow Will Be Different by Sarah McBride because I had seen her on television and knew she was an intelligent and lovely person And I wanted to better understand her experience and the work toward equality for all persons.The book s preface by Joe Biden is a must read I recently read his Promise Me, Dad and I heard the same compassion and love in this preface.McBride was fascinated by American politics since childhood Meeting Joe Biden was an unforgettable moment She interned on Beau Biden s first race McBride was fifteen when she introduced Jack Markell at the launch for his 2006 race for reelection as state treasurer, and at age eighteen when he ran for governor.During these years, McBride outwardly conformed to the gender role socially acceptable, presenting masculine and even dating She did not want to let anyone down But she was miserable.McBride ran for student president at college to great success and was very popular and led a push to end gender exclusive housing In her junior year, with great trepidation, McBride announced being transsexual.She describes the scene when she came out to her family, her mother in tears McBride had a gay brother, and her other brother tried to break the ice by announcing, I m heterosexual In a heartwarming scene, McBride tells her fraternity brothers, who enveloped her in an embrace Beau Biden called her to offer his love and support, as did Joe Biden The Biden family confirmed her belief that there are still good people in politics.McBride repeats how lucky and privileged she has been, knowing that most trans persons lack a support system and her advantages Throughout the book, she shares the devastating statistics behind the transgender experience high rates of suicide verbal harassment and physical assault in public restrooms legal exemptions that allow discrimination inability to find housing or keep a job.McBride met the love of her life, Andy, who was a few years older and also trans Tragedy struck when Andy was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery and treatment with McBride providing care and support.I can t imagine the burden of being twenty three and watching your beloved struggle with a terminal illness Both my parents died of cancer, and I was at my Dad s side in the hospital for over two months My heart broke as I read McBride s story.Trans rights advanced under President Obama, then 2016 saw the election of President Trump and Vice President Pence The gains for equality under the law are being threatened But McBride has found hope in the young people of our country, those who have been accepted as children for who they are, and who assume that the doors are open to them.I pray it is so.I received a free ebook from First to Read in exchange for a fair and unbiased review. I really enjoyed this The writing is quite simple, and at times I wish it had been a bit literary, but I can appreciate that the writing style makes this acceptable to people who may not know much about LGBTQIA and specifically trans issues.I really loved how much emphasis McBride puts on intersectionality While she is very open about her own struggles with discrimination as a trans woman, she is always quick to emphasize her own privileges She reiterates how violence against trans women of color, particularly black trans women, is an issue that is unfortunately becoming common I also love how she addresses issues around passing i.e being a trans person who is feminine masculine enough to seem cisgendered She acknowledges that passing can help her platform as a public figure, but pushes back against the idea that trans people are people because Look They look like real women men Trans people are real women and men because that is who they are not because of how they present.I also loved reading her love story with her late husband, Andy That elicited a STRONG emotional response from me.Overall, I would definitely recommend this Even if at times I got annoyed that things like POTUS were explained, I really enjoyed reading this. Amazing Grace That line, repeated over and over again in the midst of the darkest days of her life, says so much about Sarah that in the midst of any hardship, she can look for, and see, the hope in the broken and beautiful world we live in.I read this book in one sitting while sobbing on a train next to concerned and loving strangers It is such a gorgeous, honest, and brilliant lesson for all of us It s a lesson about what we give to and take from each other It s a lesson about ordinary and extraordinary courage It s a lesson about fighting, raging, and loving without regret, about protecting the people we love, and about choosing grace over fear, even in our darkest hours.I am beyond blessed to know first hand how much it means when Sarah tells us that she will never stop fight ing like hell to make sure that every single one of us is treated with the dignity, respect, and fairness we all deserve I cannot recommend this gorgeous book highly enough. I hope I get to vote for President Sarah McBride in twenty years She has such a strong and compassionate voice that she has already used in such powerful ways at such a young age Tomorrow Will Be Different is an inspirational memoir that details the author s coming out as transgender, her relationship with her late husband, and her work in politics and advocacy for equality for the trans community It s both uplifting and heartbreaking and I recommend it for anyone interested in politics or stories of transgender people. Tomorrow Will Be Different may be the most important book I ll have read this year This is the one I ll be pushing er, gently encouraging people to read Sarah McBride s memoir is both accessible and powerful She shares her own story but she is ever pointing out her privilege and centering the experiences of the transgender community She lets us in to her life, while also providing a bird s eye view of the larger issues The result is truly masterful I particularly appreciated the way she pointed out the inequity and discrimination transgender people often face in the health care system and funeral services.I was greatly moved as Sarah shared about her journey in accepting and then embracing her identity as a transgender woman This is such a personal experience That she was able to share it as openly as she did is an incredible gift.Because of Sarah s activism, we get to see everything that went on behind the scenes leading up to the Delaware Senate and House passing the Gender Identity Nondiscrimination Act of 2013 So much goes into passing any bill and it was fascinating to see how hard Sarah and her coworkers at Human Rights Campaign worked, as well as hear all the personal accounts It was also disheartening to see the pushback and outright attacks they faced But then justice prevailed and I was celebrating right alongside Sarah There s work to be done but I am confident every state will follow suit and protect the rights of all transgender people Names are important Not just in the transgender community but everywhere It s the first thing a parent gives to a baby It s how our society bestows personhood, recognizes individuality, and affirms humanity in each one of us That s why one of the first steps in marginalizing someone is to remove their name It communicates that you are unimportant and unseen p 53 Sarah made so many important points about identity and gender, the ways we show people we see and love them and the ways we marginalize and ignore them We have an opportunity to come alongside the transgender community to show them how loved and valued they are and part of that is listening to stories like Sarah s and Janet Mock and Allyson Robinson and Austen Hartke and so on One of the best parts of this book was the story of how Sarah fell in love with Andy, a transgender man They were so perfect for each other found each other and I loved that they met at a White House reception in celebration of LGBT Pride month They eventually ended up working at HRC together in addition to dating Unfortunately, Andy was diagnosed with cancer and died only a few days after they were married I m so happy they had the time together they had but it s unbearably sad that it was too short a time This was so well written and engaging I ll continue to follow and support Sarah McBride s good work Only time will tell where her political career will go If you ve been wanting to better understand and support the transgender community, this book is a wonderful place to start.Disclosure I received a complimentary copy from Blogging For Books in exchange for an honest review. This is an autobiography of the author s struggle and journey of being transgender..and I think that is the part I liked the most She covered her inner turmoil with identifying as transgender, coming out to her family, friends, coworkers and trying to find her place on the spectrum of womanhood This felt honest and I liked how she told her story She is an activist for transgender rights and has seen much change But even with the legislative changes and increased awareness many who are transgender still feel the need to be invisible I was completely pulled in to her story.Now parts of this felt long Sometimes she was just too polite and that approach seemed to drag out some of the bullet points But overall, this was informative and heartfelt So 4 stars. It s hard to not give a book five stars when it made you tear up three times for three different reasons when you re really not a crier Sarah s story is amazing and heartbreaking, and it s particularly engaging if you have an interest in politics.My favorite quotes we all live our lives with multiple identities intersecting with one another, creating a mix of privileges and challenges that all people carry with us each time we ask anyone whether they are transgender, Black, an immigrant, Muslim, Native American, gay, or a woman to sit by and let an extended conversation take place about whether they deserve to be respected and affirmed in who they are, we are asking people to watch their own life pass by without dignity or fairness That is too much to ask of anyone When young people participate in politics, they can speak from a place of history I don t mean the history of the past, but rather the history that remains to be written Young people will be the ones who write the history books of tomorrow.